Some men argue that you should make a women cum every single time you have sex.
Other men don’t care.
If you’re into one-night stands or short-term relationships, then yeah, giving a woman orgasms is irrelevant.
If you don’t plan on seeing her again, or keeping her around, then who cares if she cums?
I’m not a fan of quick flings, though.
My goal is to build relationships and maintain my harem.
So I think of female orgasms as a valuable relationship management tool.
If you plan on dating multiple women, then you must consistently make them orgasm hard.
And if you’re a man who’s into monogamy?
Well, you’ll still need to keep your woman sexually satisfied.
Whether you date one or many – make women cum and they’re more likely to be loyal to you.
So, she should cum damn near every single time you fuck her.
Preferably multiple orgasms per session.
You should be hearing things like this from the women you sleep with:
- “That was hardest I’ve ever cum in my life”
- “That was one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had”
- “You make me cum so fast”
Ready to bang her like a porn star? Here’s how to make it happen…
1) Choke Her
Choke women while you fuck them. This is a pure dominance move – and many love it. Strong hands are vital, but avoid crushing her windpipe. Learn to find the two main arteries in her throat, and reduce the blood flow to her brain. Your goal is to enhance her pleasure, not hurt her permanently. If you’re into it, you can both choke each other at the same time during sex.
2) Slap Her
Some women love getting hit. But some hate it. The ones who enjoy it seem to really get into it. To me, slapping goes hand in hand with choking. You’ll have to communicate a bit with your women to see if she wants it. If she does? Then don’t be afraid to slap her around a bit. I like to slap her ass and face – facial slaps seem to be better orgasm triggers. A well timed slap or series of slaps can bring a woman who’s teetering on the edge right over the brink.
3) Eye Contact
Forcing her to look you in the eyes when she cums. Many women tend to arch their backs and look backwards and away when they cum. Some close their eyes. Correct this. Grab her by the back of the head while she’s cumming. Force her to look at you. Say “look at me” and get your face as close as possible to hers. Maintain eye contact for the duration her orgasm. This is important for establishing dominance and cementing your bond (if that’s your goal).
4) Eye Contact & Choke Combo
A combination move. Make her to look you in the eyes while she cums, and choke her at the same time. Use your weaker hand to grab the back of her head/hair. Force her to look at you while using your strong hand to choke her. This move works better if you’re standing up on the edge of the bed fucking her missionary style. Or use it during regular missionary or doggy style.
You can talk a woman into orgasm. More specifically, you can bring a women right on the edge of orgasm to climax, by using the right words. I’ve found that women who are very attracted to you absolutely love the idea of having you cum inside them. She craves your semen. Just whisper into her ear…how you’d like to explode up inside her and pump every last drop of your hot cum into her tight little pussy. Use explicit words – the more descriptive the better. Try it when she’s close to orgasm; watch how long she lasts. Of course don’t actually cum inside her unless you have on a condom, or are trying to make a baby.
In conclusion, making your women cum should be a priority if you place any value on relationships.
Add these tips to your repertoire and see how they work for you.
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