When you’re deep in the game you’ll get rejected by tons of women. Most of those girls will reject you for things out of your control.
If you gave it your best shot, kept your game tight, and then she still rejects you? Sure it stings. But in that case, you have nothing to be ashamed of – you did nothing wrong.
But if lost her because your game wasn’t tight, well, that’s a different story. Now you gotta find your weakness, identify where your game broke down, and then consciously avoid repeating the mistake with other girls.
Of course that’s easier said than done.
But it’s part of the learning process.
Here are seven common game mistakes to avoid:
1) Not Escalating Fast Enough
If a woman wants to fuck you, she wants you to fuck her right away. Not next week, next month, or whenever. So don’t wait. Isolate her, escalate aggressively, and have sex with her as fast as you can. If she won’t fuck you quickly (after three dates, max), then she’s screened herself out. Next her and focus on the ‘yes’ girls who will respond to your rapid escalation.
2) Focusing Too Much On One Woman
It’s easier to maintain tight game and strong frame if you’ve got true abundance. And that means dating more than one women at a time. With just one woman in your life, it’s much harder to keep your game tight. Not impossible, just hard. Having lots of women ‘takes the edge off’ and makes your game more chill, relaxed, and effective.
3) Acting Obsessive
Obsession is a positive trait when applied to business, fitness training, or learning. But it takes a dark turn when focused on women. In my experience obsession usually manifests when relationships end, when you’re losing a girl you love. If you’ve got an overly obsessive personality; make sure you never focus it on any one woman.
4) Letting Emotions Bleed Over
I made this mistake when I first started running harems. Girl One got me upset for some reason. Then when I saw Girl Two later that day, I let my negative emotions from Girl One bleed over and affect my behavior with Girl Two. Big mistake. Never let your feeling from one relationship bleed over into another. Instead, be grateful for your abundance and the fact you have other girls to fall back on!
5) Cutting Girls Off Too Soon
This is a common, re-occurring weakness in my game. I get impatient with women. And I’ll cut them off, fast, if they displease me. This mindset is good if the girl is actually wasting your time. In that case ruthless screening is a big time saver. But at the same time, I know that sometimes I end up deleting girls who I probably could have fucked (or kept fucking), but didn’t because they annoyed me a little bit.
6) Not Being Flexible
It’s good to have guidelines. They keep your game tight and give you a roadmap to work with. But at the same time, you’ve gotta realize that the Game is a fluid thing. Yes there are rules. But those rules can be bent when needed. Always be willing to ‘go off script’ and be flexible and creative to get what you want.
7) Bad First-Time Sex
It’s a harsh reality of game – girls judge you on how good you are in bed. Sure a woman may forgive awkward first-time sex, if she likes you. But in general, you better bring your A-game. If you don’t fuck her well then it’s almost guaranteed that she’ll ghost on you. So step up your sex game, player.
Improving game takes time.
There are very few naturals in this world – most of us must work at getting better with girls.
So if you’re making these game mistakes, take it easy on yourself.
Don’t get upset.
Learn from your experiences instead.
Objectively analyze and correct yourself, so you avoid making the same mistakes again.
That’s the best way to bring your game to the next level.
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