As your game improves, you’ll naturally become more masculine.
Meaning you’ll attract more feminine women.
And that’s a good thing.
Feminine girls are better than their tomboy sisters.
They’re usually more petite, girly, sweet, and loving.
They’re likely prettier, dress like real women, and tend to have long hair and nice nails.
And feminine girly-girls are also (mostly) more loyal; making them better LTRs or harem members.
But there’s a downside to dating ultra-feminine women – exaggerated feminine behavior:
- Diva behavior
- Excess emotional drama
Ah, the tears. And it’s no coincidence, my friend.
Female tears are a powerful tool.
She learned from a very young age – strategic crying leads to her getting exactly what she wants.
And she’s likely been using that to her advantage for years…
Don’t Be Swayed By Female Tears
Men have a powerful, primal urge to stop female tears.
Just like a when a baby cries, a cat yowls, or a wolf howls.
We feel a powerful, primal urge to make that sound stop.
Don’t believe me?
Try making your girl sob in public.
See what kind of white knight attention you get…
Some players have zero tolerance for drama.
For them, tears = instant soft next.
I’m more tolerant.
Especially with LTR harem girls and bottom bitches.
As long as she’s not out of control, I’ll tolerate some crying.
So how should you handle it when your girl breaks down in front of you?
1) Be Understanding
First off, realize she’s trying to manipulate you. It’s a classic emotional control tactic. Sure she may be genuinely upset, sad, or angry. But even so, the tears are meant to control your behavior, and help her get what she wants from you.
2) Listen To Her
What does she really want? Can you give it to her, without compromising your player principles? Or should her request be denied outright?
3) Lay Down The Law
If there’s no compromise, then calmly state what YOU’RE going to do. You can’t control her, but you can control you. She can accept your choices like an adult. Or, she can leave.
4) Be A Rock
Stay calm, calm, calm. Let her break herself against you. Her emotions are tempestuous, wild. Show no emotion, don’t react to her crying. In practice, it means controlling your state.
5) Maintain A Poker Face
A blank stare is an effective tool here – the outward expression of your Stoic state. She’ll be expecting a reaction, but not that one.
6) Touch Her
After she’s cried for a while, lovingly touch her. This will comfort her and show you still care.
7) Don’t Laugh
I’ll admit, I’ve choked down laughter on occasion in the face of female tears. Sometimes the manipulation so obvious it’s funny. But laughing won’t help; either she’ll just cry harder and/or get even more angry.
8) Wait Her Out
Just wait. She’ll burn herself out – like a kid who can no longer keep up a tantrum. But don’t wait too long…
9) Set Limits
Meaning her tantrum better be quick. And never allow physical violence against you or your stuff. If she violates the limits? Gets too unruly? Well then…
10) Next Her
This is the nuclear option, the last resort. Like I mentioned, some guys will next at the first sob, others might be more forgiving. That’s up to you to decide, player. Calibrate by girl. Tolerate crying, ultimatums, or drama from a new FB or fling? No, unlikely. From a two-year LTR who’s deeply in love with you? Probably, yes.
Remember, it’s not your job to make her happy!
Many women are miserable people – you can’t fix that.
So, let her cry.
It doesn’t affect you, at all.
And once you’ve driven her right to the brink, emotionally?
She’s cried out, you didn’t relent, and she’s still there with?
Then that means she only wants one thing, my friend.
You love = your cock, and cum.
Now that she’s done crying, she’s likely super horny.
Sure, you could punish her – deny her.
But I prefer the other route.
Go for that sweet make up sex, ASAP.
Give her the emotional high and physical high she’s craving.
Remember, if you can make her cry, you can make her cum!
Recognize female tears for what they are
They’re not something you need to “fix.”
They’re a tool, a tactic she employs in the game of love.
Learn how to handle female waterworks.
Next time you’re confronted with her tears?
Resist your beta urges, and instead seize the opportunity to strengthen your relationship hand.