Heartbreak is one of the hardest things a man can go through in life.
Losing a woman you love can feel like death.
The pain, helplessness, and anger are tough to handle.
Especially since masculine men should suffer in silence.
When you’re wallowing in the depths of despair, you just want it to end.
The anguish seems to serve no purpose.
But if you’re a player who wants to master the game?
Then heartbreak is good for you…
To be a true heart-breaker, you must have YOUR heart shattered
At least once.
Because heartbreak is a great life lesson.
It destroys illusion and exposes a man to some brutal truths.
You’ll learn to understand the fleeting quality of female affection.
See the reality of cold feminine nature.
Experience the female emotional off switch.
Fathom the vast difference between male and female love.
And finally, get a bitter taste of what “loyalty” means to a woman.
Heartbreak tightens inner game
Breakups don’t just expand your knowledge of girls.
They also help forge emotional armor.
Forcing you to face your own weakness and vulnerability.
And once you pass through the gauntlet, and heal, you’ll be stronger.
Careful with your affection.
Slower to fall in love.
Pickier when you do.
A hard ending also helps a man understand the type of woman he falls for, and which to avoid.
That’s vital when you find love again.
Because despite the hurt, you’ll discover the player’s paradox:
Your heart won’t be permanently damaged.
Yes, your inner game will be like ice after surviving heartbreak.
But you will be able to fall in love again.
Love and the Red Pill are NOT mutually exclusive
A Red Pill-aware man can fall in love again, post-heartbreak, if he wants.
And he’s better off now that he’s clearly aware of the potential danger.
That knowledge, combined with stronger inner game, helps a player level up.
He’s not desperate or needy for love, since he’s already had it.
But doesn’t need to avoid it, either.
Because he’s strong enough to handle it, like a man.
Love is normal, human, and healthy.
It’s what makes life worth living.
So, if you find the right girl, let yourself fall in love.
If she’s worth it to you, pour yourself into the relationship.
Give it your all.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
Eventually, inevitably, she’ll break your heart.
But you’ll be a better man for surviving the experience.
And that much closer to mastering game.
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