Game isn’t a secret. An internet search yields dozens of articles discussing pick-up artists, negging, and related subjects.
Of course not every woman reads about that stuff.
But in general, in most large metro areas, I’d say that a big chunk of the female population has heard of game. So if you live in those places, there’s a strong chance that some of the girls you date are gonna be ‘game-aware.’
For me this is especially true no matter where I’m at – since I write this blog using my real name. That means most women I date end up eventually discovering game; they learn all about my strategies and tactics.
But does the fact that they know about game make it less effective?
Game works on women who are game-aware.
If a woman is familiar with game, then she’s more likely to talk about it with you, sure. Male-female sexual dynamics is an interesting topic. And so many women like discussing it.
But I’ve found that even if women do understand game, they rarely grasp it the same way men do. With guys, when we discuss game, we delve deep into details.
Day game, night game, Tinder, social circle game.
Inner game, introvert game, relationship game, and sex.
Dating younger women and running harems.
How to seduce Latinas, Asians, or Russian women.
And then there’s the whole self-improvement aspect – foreign languages, money, style, and muscle.
So it’s a multi-faceted and complex subject – something you can look at from hundreds of different angles.
But women don’t really care about all that. Because most girls who know about this stuff are only interested in how it relates to them. So they ignore the finer points. And that limits their understanding of why and how game really works.
And even if a hypothetical genius woman did understand all of it, an attractive man could still use game when dealing with her, and he’d likely be successful.
Because when you’re using game correctly it’s not about memorized pickup lines, negging, tricks, acting, or logic.
Game is about influencing her feelings and emotions – and it should flow naturally.
And that’s much harder to perceive or call out; because it’s just part of your personality.
So a woman might understand, logically, what a man is doing when he uses game on her.
But in the end, that won’t matter.
Because on an emotional, primal level, women can’t help but be attracted to strong, masculine men with game.
Women will always be guided by their feelings; so game will always work – even with game-aware girls.