I’ve been living in Mexico City for nine months now. During that time I’ve pulled girls using three different methods – day game, social proof game, and Tinder.
Day game and social proof game have generally gotten me better-quality girls. But Tinder has it’s place too. Especially here in La Capital – where a massive population supports the popular app.
But while Tinder can get you laid, it’s also a huge time-waster if not used right. So you gotta learn to ruthlessly screen girls on Tinder, if you want to be efficient. That means deleting girls who are wasting your time, and focusing only on ‘yes’ girls – the ones who will fuck you.
In the end, it’s just a brutal numbers game. But with experience, you’ll find that’s it’s actually a pretty easy game to play. That’s because most ‘yes’ girls follow a familiar pattern.
Here are five things to look out for:
1) Fast Response
This the big clue. If a Tinder girl is gonna bang you, she’s gonna do it fast. So that means she’ll respond to your messages quickly. The longer a girl takes to get back to you, the less interested she is. This also applies once you’ve moved from Tinder over to texting. The faster she replies the better.
2) She’s Agreeable
I almost always ask girls out on a date within two messages on Tinder. And I ask for her number by message three. If she balks at either question? She gets un-matched immediately. Girls who are interested will be agreeable. She should respond positively, say ‘yes’ to a date, and then give you her phone number almost right away.
3) Good Questions & Conversation
Girls who ask you questions are more likely to bang you. So focus on women who are trying to move the conversation forward. Avoid girls who are hard to talk to. Skip the ones who respond with nothing but one-word answers. She doesn’t need your life story (and beware of too many questions!) But asking you basics like where you’re from, what you do, where you live, and your age? All good signs.
4) Same Day Date
This is a biggie. Many girls will agree to a same-day date at first. But then they’ll put you off. Next week, this weekend, on Friday, whatever. It’s bad if she stalls. Because a girl who wants to fuck won’t wait. She’ll see you the same day, or the next. Most of my Tinder bangs have all been same day. Meaning I found her on Tinder in the morning, set up the date in the afternoon, then banged her later that night after the first date. There are some exceptions. Some girls may still bang you a few days out. But that’s rare. On Tinder speed is everything. So if you don’t meet with a girl within two days after getting her number, your chances drop dramatically.
5) Normal & Easy Flow
This is kind of subjective. But basically, girls who are gonna fuck you tend to act ‘normal’ and ‘easy.’ Not slutty, just relaxed and natural. The whole interaction should be smooth. ‘Yes’ girls don’t send you weird long messages or ask you a bunch of stupid pointless questions. They don’t second guess you or try to change the date venue. If things get weird, awkward, or strained? Next her and move on.
Delete & Un-Match
So know you know how to screen girls on Tinder, and identify the ones who will bang you.
But what about the ‘no’ and ‘maybe’ girls? The ones who screen themselves out? Girls who are disagreeable and bitchy, who can’t meet until next weekend, or who take half a day to answer your texts?
Well that’s when being ruthless comes into play.
You must be willing to cut your losses and move on fast.
No matter how young and hot she is, no matter how bad you wanted the date, none of that matters.
If she’s flashing ‘no’ girl signs, you’re wasting your time pursuing her.
So delete her number, un-match her from Tinder, and forget about her!
Then you’ll be ready to focus on the next ‘yes’ girl that comes along.
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