Most game advice focuses on approach, frame control, confidence, and amused mastery. But tight game also involves knowing when to cut your losses quickly. Sometimes, it’s best to move on! So in this post, I’l teach you how to walk out on a first date.
Most walk-outs happen with online dating (cat-fishing)
That’s because with online dating, the first date is your first meet.
So you’re more likely to discover flaws you didn’t notice online.
Now some might see walking out on a first date as a defeat.
But I see it as victory, a way of winning the dating game…
Learning to walk out on a first date is good for you
First date nexting saves you time, energy, and money.
But it’s also abundance mentality translated into action.
She’s not good enough, and so you’ve rejected her.
Of course, you don’t want to next every girl.
Your goal is getting laid, not proving how badass you are by walking out on girls!
But limits and standards are important, and there’s no reason to tolerate bad behavior or physical flaws.
And once you’re pushing 100 first dates, like me?
Patience for female shenanigans wears thin…
How my last two dates ended…
23-Year-Old Latina – I found her on OKCupid, met her for drinks at a coffee house. It went well right up until I told her I was 36. She hadn’t looked my profile closely; she thought I was much younger. She just couldn’t see herself dating a guy my age! She wanted to be friends though. I declined. Walked out on her after 45 minutes.
27-Year-Old Blonde Single Mom – Another OKCupid coffeehouse date. An extremely attractive blue-eyed blonde with a voluptuous body. But her attitude was awful. She was so uncool I left after 20 minutes.
When should you walk out on her?
Whenever YOU feel like it.
I’ll next girls for the following first date offenses:
- Bad Attitude – Disrespectful, difficult behavior cannot be tolerated.
- Catfishing – If she’s fat or ugly IRL, walk.
- Sloppy Style – Dressing poorly on a first date is a sign that she doesn’t care.
- Zero Chemistry – Chemistry can’t be faked. If it’s not there now, it never will be.
Don’t like her?
For any reason?
How should you leave?
How you handle walking out is up to you.
If you’re a nice guy, calmly explain that you’re just not feeling her.
Then head out.
That’s what I did with those last two dates.
I prefer the diplomatic route, but that’s me.
You could also be harsh about it – just excuse yourself without explanation.
Then never come back.
As long as you get out of there, that’s all that matters.
Pre-screen to avoid the situation
Try pre-screening online girls before first dates; to avoid bad apples.
Something feel off about her pre-date?
Trust your gut and cancel.
Walking out on first dates is rare…
But go on enough dates, and it’ll happen.
So be ruthless when the situation calls for it.
On a first date with a questionable new girl? Found you don’t like her? Just leave, my friend.
Because when you walk out on a first date, you’ll save valuable time, energy, and money. Walking out on dates streamlines your dating process. And it will create confidence, which will ultimately tighten your inner game.