Some men dislike online game, for different reasons.
But I’ve heard three main arguments against it.
So let’s address the haters.
Online Dating Is For Pussies
It takes balls to cold approach. It takes no courage to send an OKCupid email. No denying that. But the actual dating and seduction process? That isn’t any easier with online dating. You’ve still got to run game in person if you’re gonna fuck her. And I’d argue that it can be even TOUGHER to bang an online prospect.
Well with online girls, your first date is your first meeting. When you meet her in person, she’s still a literal stranger. Yes, she’s seen your pictures, but it’s still not much different from a blind date. So it takes tight game to consistently get girls online to sleep with you, cold. Add that to the fact online girls almost always have their guards up when they meet you. After all, you could be just another internet creeper or catfish.
Now compare that with girls you’ve seduced through day game or night game. With those girls – yes, getting the number is harder. Yes, you’re strangers initially. But you get a chance to warm her up while getting her number; she’s met you. So once you’re actually on the first date with her? Those girls are generally easier to seduce; more likely already attracted to you. That’s semi-warm seduction, instead of completely cold online seduction. Again, I’m not saying day game or night game are easy. Not at all. Just that online game isn’t easier; and in some ways it can be harder.
Girls Online Are Low-Quality
Are there low-quality women online? Of course. Online dating sites are filled with freaks and fatties. But if you live here in the west – how’s that any different from your real-life? Go take a look outside. There are weirdos and land whales everywhere. But there are also good-looking girls in the real world – diamonds in the rough. So just like real life, there are also attractive women online. Yes they’re a minority. But learn to hunt properly and screen ruthlessly, and you’ll find girls you like.
Online Dating Just Doesn’t Work
This is a common complaint, and I can relate. Many years ago, before taking the red pill, I tried using Plenty of Fish. Scored one date, didn’t get laid, so I quit. I failed because I didn’t know what I was doing. But I was stubborn, knew I could do it, and tried again. I worked obsessively until I succeeded. And now? Well I wouldn’t say dating online is easy. It’s still a grind. But it works. Don’t believe me? Read through my online dating archives…
Online game is like anything else. Yes it has flaws.
Should it be your only resource for meeting new women?
But in the end, a first date is still a first date. No matter how you got there.
Online dating is just another pipeline.
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