For most men, taking the Red Pill means understanding female sexuality.
Some might say that’s the main reason for taking the Red Pill. To truly understand female sexuality, so we can exploit it for personal gain.
But it’s also important for players to understand heterosexual male sexuality.
Well, a player who understands both sexes has a more holistic view. And that knowledge can help him get laid more often.
So today we’ll explore an often-misunderstood facet of male sexuality.
The Man Who Allows His Woman To Fuck Other Men
To understand this phenomenon, first you’ve gotta look at men as whole. When it comes to this topic, men can be separated into several distinct groups.
Let’s explore most common group first:
Traditional Alphas & Normal Betas
Most men (Alpha and Beta) have ‘normal’ monogamous views. Meaning, they value female loyalty and monogamy; they can’t fathom any other arrangement. Just the thought of their women having sex with another guy makes them recoil in disgust!
And if they learned their women was banging another man?
They’d likely end the relationship right away. Of course, many of these men also cheat on their women after promising them monogamy; but that’s a topic for another post. I’d say about 2/3 of all guys fall into this category.
But what about the other men?
Bros who DO tolerate their girls fucking other dudes?
Men who allow this type of behavior from women tend to be VERY different than the first group we just explored.
Let’s look at these outliers, in detail:
This group of guys just don’t care about female loyalty. The thought of their women fucking other men doesn’t turn them on.
It’s that they truly don’t care, pure indifference.
This sort of attitude is usually held by men with many options; players who routinely fuck multiple girls.
I don’t have time to babysit you. I’m banging other girls. So I don’t care if you fuck other men. Just don’t bring me diseases, and we’re good.
I’d say about 5-10% of the male population falls into the Indifferent Alpha category.
These men have Alpha qualities. But they react differently to female ‘disloyalty’. Men like this aren’t into humiliation per se; they don’t usually want to watch the act. But they seem to get aroused by the thought of their women fucking other men.
Or at the very least, they think it makes the relationship stronger.
For example, Jack Murphy wrote a controversial post about cultivating sexual energy by letting his girl fuck another dude (with his consent.) I’d say this is the most rare type of man, and the most difficult for other guys to understand, maybe 1-5% of guys in this category.
Swinger men would also technically be in this group, although they’re a different breed.
It’s important to understand one point here…
Both Indifferent Alphas and Aroused Alphas have similar psyches; they’re so secure in their own sexuality that other men don’t threaten them at all. And they’re willing to give their women sexual freedom, so they can practice it themselves (if they want), without hypocrisy.
Cuckolds (aka cucks) also allow their women to bang other men.
But a cuck is different from the others. Disgusting. Contemptible. Because a cuck wants to be ACTIVELY humiliated and degraded, by his female ‘partner’ and her lover.
Oftentimes they’ll fuck right in front of him. Sometimes, while the cuck’s sex organs are locked in a chastity device! Cucks will willingly suck another man’s semen out of his wife’s vagina, to ‘clean her up’ afterwards.
Cuckolding often has a racial angle. Meaning, black men (bulls) fuck white women (hotwives) while the white husband (cuckold) watches from the corner.
And of course it should come as no surprise that this dynamic only works one way; the woman is allowed to stray but the cuckold is faithful.
The Old-School Option
So what about me?
Well, I’m no cuck.
But I do have experience with (some of) my women fucking other men. For me it depends on the context. If a woman is just a fuck-buddy then I don’t care if she bangs other bros. I’d prefer if she didn’t, of course, for health reasons. But I’ll allow it if she does.
Sexist & hypocritical?
At least it’s honest. So for me, it works.
Most men will never allow their women to have sex with other guys. But a minority will.
As a player, it’s important for you to understand these types of men.
But equally important – know yourself.
Which kind of man are you?
The answer is vital, because it will help you build relationships that fit YOUR specific needs.
Would you let your woman fuck another guy? Or, are you a woman who bangs more than one man?
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