The whole concept of text game is still kinda odd to me.
That’s because it didn’t exist when I grew up.
We didn’t have cell phones.
Phone game was a thing back then, since parents had landlines.
In those days, I’d actually talk to girls I liked…
Sometimes, for hours at a time!
But now, phone game is a dying art.
Real conversations are rare.
Text game reigns supreme.
Of course now it’s all about texting.
But texting girls isn’t the same as talking on the phone.
It’s a different skill set.
So you’ve gotta learn to text right, if you wanna consistently get laid.
Improving text game is tough for dudes, though.
Guys have masculine, linear communication habits – not good for game.
Because what men see as straightforward communication, basic manners?
Women often view that as predictable, boring, and annoying…
And that can damage your relationships.
Don’t fall into dull patterns.
You’ve gotta keep her guessing!
It comes down to inconsistency.
Keep her off-balance.
Add irregularity to your text game – develop a wildly erratic style of texting.
To the logical male mind, this will likely seem inconsiderate or rude.
But it works.
It’ll drive her nuts, keep you in her thoughts, AND increase her attraction for you.
Alternate between hot and cold texting extremes…
Make her crawl through the text desert.
Think of the first extreme as the text desert.
Act like a ghost.
Pay her no attention.
Take a long time to answer back.
If she takes twenty minutes to answer you? Take around forty. If she takes thirty minutes? Take sixty.
And so on…
Or, make her wait even longer if you like.
Hours, or even days before you respond.
And unless you’re making plans, avoid texting her first – let her start.
Finally, be concise with your texts when you do respond. Little warmth, no smiley faces.
Slake her thirst with the affection deluge.
Then sometimes, you’ll practice the other extreme.
You’ll send regular texts.
Now, be affectionate and wordy. Smiley faces, LOLs, etc.
You can also use a multi-text strategy. Two, three, even four or more texts all in a row.
And you don’t need to observe timing rules here. Meaning, no need to time your texts now – just respond when you feel like it. Quickly is OK.
Keep these “affection deluges” to a minimum.
You can use the Pareto Principle – keep the ratio around 80-20.
So, 80 percent desert-style aloof texting.
Combined with 20 percent deluge-style nice-guy texts.
Walk the line.
What about girls you haven’t slept with yet?
Will this work on them?
100 percent aloof text game is best pre-bang.
This style of text game works best on girls you’ve already fucked.
For girls you’ve slept with, desert and deluge combo text game is a winning combo.
Master walking the line between aloof asshole and affectionate lover.
It’ll keep her attraction high AND add longevity to your relationships.