Stoned v. Sober Seduction
I’ve experimented with mind-altering substances.
Cocaine, LSD, magic mushrooms, MDMA, opium, PCP, hashish, alcohol, rohipnol, morphine, and nicotine.
But marijuana was always my drug of choice.
Now I’m not gonna debate the pros and cons of getting high.
Whether you like it or not, weed is part of western culture – it’s here to stay.
But it begs the question; asked by many pothead players:
Does smoking weed help or hurt your game?
Specifically, does cannabis intoxication make it easier or harder to pick up women?
Well in some ways weed can be great for game.
But it can also hold you back and make things much more challenging…
I’ve seduced women totally sober.
I’ve also pulled women while high.
Let’s explore both sides:
5 Ways Cannabis Hurts Game
1) Day Game Handicap
In general, weed is bad for day game. This is especially true for introverted men. Weed traps you in your head, hindering approaches. Of course you CAN approach women when stoned, if you force it. Sober day game is best for introverts.
2) Anxiety & Foggy Brain
Cannabis is a mood-enhancer. So if you’re already anxious when dealing with women, weed will magnify your mood and likely make your game sloppier. And weed can leave most men mentally cloudy. You’ll need killer game instincts to cut through that stoned fog. Some guys might be strong enough to pull it off, but for others it’ll be running game on “hard mode.”
3) Tight Red Eye
Being high can be detrimental to your physical appearance. Of course, this depends on the man, and how he reacts to marijuana. But expect glassy red eyes and the smell of weed clinging to your clothes and face. Not great for seduction. Solve all that with a shower, good cologne, eye drops, and toothbrush.
4) Holing Up
For some guys, especially introverts, getting high is just another excuse to stay home. Smoking a bowl can make leaving the house a real challenge for many people – to say nothing of cold approaching.
5) Dry Mouth
Weed dries out your tongue – the dreaded cotton mouth. It can make kissing less pleasant and escalation more difficult. The solution? A ready supply of chewing gum and water.
7 Ways Cannabis Helps Game
1) Day Game Enhancer
Weed can enhance aggression and social skills IF you’re in the right mood. That’s especially true for extroverted men – I’ve seen stoned extrovert naturals deal with women just fine. If you’re feeling sociable, then ganja can loosen you up and make you even more outgoing.
2) Date Flow
Depending on your tolerance, cannabis can help your “flow” during your dates. It’s similar to alcohol in that way. I’ve personally never had a problem seducing women while stoned on first dates. Or second or third dates.
Weed itself can be great “bait” to lure a girl back to your place. It gives her a legit reason to come over. I’ve used this line more times than I can count – “Hey lets go back to my house and smoke a bowl…” Works like a charm.
Cannabis is a great way to screen out uptight chicks. Older, bitchier women don’t like smoking. But most hotter, younger, crazier chicks aged between 18-23 DO smoke bud. At least occasionally. And even if she doesn’t smoke, her attitude towards it says a lot about her.
Cannabis makes girls horny, increasing your chances of securing a bang. Do you need ganja for great sex? No. But it enhances sex and can make it better for both partners. Never banged while high on kind bud? You’re missing out my friend. It’ll help you last longer and prolong your pleasure. And it leads to intense orgasms. Some say smoking marijuana kills the male sex drive. That’s never been a problem for me, so I doubt that claim.
6) Relationship Game
Marijuana can help your relationship game. Stoners are naturally aloof. When you’re high you tend to not give a fuck about women, or anything else.
7) Bad Boy Dichotomy
Though ganja isn’t a hard drug, it’s still mostly illegal. So smoking makes you a (minor) law-breaker. A good way to show off your “bad boy” outlaw side. This can be especially attractive to women when you’ve got other areas of your life handled properly.
Smoking weed runs counter to the whole self-improvement & health theme popular in the manosphere. Clearly though, a man can smoke weed and stay in good shape. Coming soon, I’ll show you how to stay healthy and strong even if you consume cannabis regularly…
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