I’m not a big fan of one-night stands. I’m an introverted guy, so I like having relationships. For me that usually means a small harem of quality women.
But a man must adapt to his environment – he’s gotta adjust himself to the culture he’s in. In some places, one-night stands and casual sex are more common than serious relationships. And Mexico City is one of those places. In La Capital, the one-night stand (ONS) reigns supreme.
In my eleven months living here, I’ve had more one-night stands than I’ve ever had in my life. Out of the all the girls I’ve hooked up with in Mexico City – 62% have been one-night stands or short-term flings.
So Why Are One-Night Stands So Common In el DF?
I have a few theories…
1) Massive & Anonymous City
Mexico City is vast. The size helps hide people, it makes them anonymous. Unless you live in the same neighborhood, the chances of you running into a girl you’ve banged are slim to none. It’s also unlikely that her friends or family will find out what she’s done, because they’ll never meet you and you don’t know the same people.
2) Strong Western Influence
Mexico has a strong, proud culture. And most Mexicans are Catholic, with conservative ideas about Church and family. But at the same time, Mexico is extremely open to outside influences – North American culture is very strong in Mexico. And it’s especially strong in el DF. So that means that Western practices like the one-night stand are common among young people.
I’ve had flings with women I’ve met on the street. But most of my ONS’ have come from Tinder, it’s quite popular here. It’s a good resource for guys looking for easy sex. But it’s also a double-edged sword. The women in Mexico City have tons of options – they’re literally drowning in dick. And that further fuels the one-night stand train.
Many Latina women are cheaters. But that doesn’t mean they’re gonna leave their man for you. A girl with a boyfriend or husband might fuck you once, if she likes you. But she doesn’t want to jeopardize her relationship. So she’ll cut you off after the first time, to protect herself.
5) Traveling Women
DF is popular with foreign women. You’ll find girls from all over the world here. Some are residents, others are just passing through. There’s also many Mexican girls visiting La Capital from other parts of Mexico. Girls all alone in the Big City are often open to sexual adventures with new men, traveling women are ripe for ONS action. 39% of the women I’ve had a ONS with in Mexico City were from out-of-town.
6) Public Kissing
Public displays of affection are normal in the Capital. You’ll often see couples making out, hard. And no one cares. You can use this to your advantage by going for the kiss fast, while you’re still out on the date. Of course not every first date kiss is gonna lead to sex. But it’s a good screening tool. If she doesn’t like you, you’ll be able to tell. And then you can cut the date short and move on. If she does like you, the kiss is the first step towards sexual escalation and getting the one-night stand later that night.
7) Same-Day Lays
Women in Mexico City don’t waste time. If they like you, they’ll fuck you quickly. Almost all my one-night stands have been same-day lays. Meaning I met them, had the first date, and then had sex with them on the same day. And more same-day lays means more one-night stands.
Are you a man who likes one night stands?
Then you should come to el Distrito Federal.
You’ll have a field day.
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