Today I’ll discuss a powerful way to quickly improve your relationships with women.
This tip is simple, easy to learn, and will come naturally to most men.
But it’s a game pillar – a fundamental way to strengthen hand within your relationships.
What’s this magic game bullet?
Well, you read the title…
But it’s important, so I’ll say it again.
Never Confide In Her
You shouldn’t be telling your girls anything important.
Now of course, talking is vital during the seduction phase of game.
When you first meet her, you’ll obviously need to talk.
Sometimes a lot.
Communication, including speech, is how you sell yourself on those first dates.
You’ve gotta “spit game.”
Of course, even then, you should stick to light first date topics, and avoid talking too much about yourself.
Anyway, things change once you’ve had sex.
You move past the seduction phase and into the relationship phase.
Now, how you communicate with her should change.
But this part of the relationship is a grey area, an area of potential weakness.
That’s because many guys start trusting their women too much – just because they’ve had sex.
And that leads to them getting too comfortable, and talking too much.
That’s a massive mistake.
Telling her too much will ultimately damage your relationship, and should be avoided at all costs.
Master Relationship Omerta
Never talk to her about plans, goals, or secrets.
Keep your dreams, hopes, aspirations, fears, and anxieties to yourself.
Never show her your financial situation.
And don’t discuss business dealings, or anything that would give her insight into those worlds.
This code of silence will serve several purposes.
For one thing, it’ll keep you looking highly mysterious.
Your silence keeps her guessing and throws her off-balance.
And that discomfort is a good thing for your relationship.
Chicks love trying to figure their men out – give her the gift of mystery.
And there’s another reason for keeping quiet:
Telling her your goals won’t help you meet them.
It’s unlikely that she helps you.
Worst case scenario?
She may actively hurt you and plot against you.
More commonly though, she just won’t be that supportive due to her feminine nature.
Women are generally not risk-takers.
And that risk-aversion leads to a sort of default negativity.
Sure, they like results, the rewards of risk-taking.
But they really don’t want to see the process, even if they pretend to care.
What if she presses you?
Well if you must talk, it’s best to not talk about things until AFTER you’re done.
Discussing past achievements is fine, since she can’t influence those events.
If she’s pestering you just tell her:
“I talk about things after I’ve done them, not before then.”
And then leave it at that.
Yes, feeling excited about life is natural.
It’s human to want to discuss ideas and plans.
She’s you lover, not your friend
So, treat her like it.
If you absolutely must confide in someone?
Talk to male friends or mentors.
Or if you need a woman’s perspective, try close female family members, if you have them.
But when it comes to your girls?
There’s almost no downside to male silence in a relationship…
Don’t confide in her.
You’ll tighten your game, keep an air of mystery, AND keep her strongly attracted to you long-term.