I found Anastasia on OKCupid a week after I got back from Japan. I sent her an opener Saturday morning and she responded immediately. I asked her to meet up with me Monday or Tuesday. She couldn’t because she was “busy.” She wanted to meet up immediately. I take this sort of same day scheduling request as a shit test. She looked good in her photos so fuck it. I sent her a text and we finalized the date for that night. Anastasia was difficult and high maintenance right away. Not bitchy or dramatic just difficult. This was an indicator of how the relationship would play out.
I didn’t have time to talk to her on the phone pre-date.
I spent the half a day before the date with Janelle. I relaxed while Janelle cooked dinner. Then we watched a movie and spent the evening having sex. Then Janelle went to work. I showered her smell off me and got ready for my date with Anastasia.
I wore boots, jeans, and a v-neck and my watch. I prefer to wear boots on first dates because they add an extra inch. I had gotten a haircut the day before and was feeling relaxed and confident. I recommend going on first dates with your balls drained. It is hard to fake the kind of relaxed and indifferent attitude that comes from fucking all day.
I drove to meet Anastasia at the hipster coffee shop up the road from my house. She lived all the way up north but I was too lazy to meet her halfway and chose the coffee shop by my house instead. She texted me to let me know she would be a little late since it was so far from her house. She texted again as I pulled in. She was waiting inside.
I walked in and she hugged me hello. Anastasia was a tall white girl, brunette with brown eyes. She was 24 and had moved here from the Northeast last year. She was taller than I usually like; the same height as me. She was sexy. She had smooth clear skin and straight white teeth. Anastasia had a high feminine voice, long hair, and perfectly painted nails. She was voluptuous with huge tits and nice thick ass. She was the good kind of curvy, not fat. The kind you want to sink your cock into. She was extremely photogenic. And she had this great sort of sashaying walk.
We each ordered an Abita Purple Haze and then sat down to talk. The coffee shop wasn’t crowded. I picked a table against a wall with two chairs next to each other. I sat right next to her, pressing our knees together. I told her I had to leave in an hour. I was still on my high from traveling to Japan and successfully seducing the Russian. We talked about movies, music and travel. She was obsessed with Santiago de Compostela in Spain and even had a picture of it in her iPhone. I’d been there a couple of years before and told her stories. I talked about my trip to Japan. I touched Anastasia heavily starting with her hands and forearms. Then I moved up and touched her shoulders, neck and throat. I touched her face, ears, earrings, and stroked her hair. I asked her about working out and made her flex her arms and legs. She complied with all my requests and she started touching me back. In my experience this is usually a strong indicator of interest.
I asked her about her relationships. She’d moved here with her ex-boyfriend, but that they had broken up. She was now living with a different male roommate (who I found out later she used to fuck). I did not ask Anastasia about sex on this date. After an hour it was time to head out. I walked her to her car. We made out for several minutes and then said I said goodnight.
She added me on Facebook the same night. I sent her a text pitching the second date. Anastasia came over a few nights later for a movie. We made out again but I got nowhere. Hardcore resistance to my escalation. I sent her home as soon as the movie was over.
Finally, she agreed to a second movie night at my house. We had sex within the first hour of the third date.
I liked Anastasia but she was tough to date. She left me once she found out I was dating other women. I refused her monogamy. I thought it was ironic that she expected monogamy from me. She was living with a man she ‘used to’ sleep with. She came back to me about a month after that. We had some minor drama that I wrote about here. Then she agreed to stop seeing other people. She became part of my (temporary) royal harem. We dated for another three or four months until she left for good. Our last text exchange:
Anastasia: I really will miss you :)
MF: I know :)
Anastasia: God I hate you lol
Total Cost: $9.66
Total Time Spent: 4-5 hours meet to lay
Lessons Learned: Going on solo international trips (and gaming successfully) gives your domestic game a dramatic boost.