It happened. You slipped up or said the wrong thing.
Or she got nosy. Snooped into your phone, email, or Facebook.
She found names and faces. Matched up events, dates and times.
Oh sure, she already knew you dated other girls.
Hated it, but tolerated it.
But now? She knows too much, way more than she should. And now your relationship is probably over, right?
If you handle it right, you can use female jealousy to your advantage..
But first, you’ve got to understand a fundamental truth – men and women experience jealousy differently.
A jealous man can be homicidal. You know what I mean – that primal urge to kill every single motherfucker who’s ever violated “your girl.” Most civilized men don’t act on our blood-lust, but we know it’s there.
For women, it’s different. Female jealousy won’t make her murderous (usually). Sure it’ll upset her, maybe bring her to tears. But she feels jealousy in a different way. Deep down, it turns her on.
Arm yourself with that knowledge, the next time you deal with female jealousy.
Handled properly, she’ll fight hard for your love, sex, and affection. Especially when she knows she has competition.
O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-ey’d monster,
which doth mock The meat it feeds on.
~ Shakespeare, Othello
Tips for handling female jealousy
1) Be Honest
Chumps lie to keep girls. If you’re lying so she’ll stay, you care about her way too much. Yeah, I’ll admit that I’ve lied before, in the past. And guess what? It doesn’t work. Yes, she may stay for a while. But she’s a master at uncovering deception. She’ll eventually find out you’re a liar and lose respect. Then, it’ll end anyway. So, be honest. Don’t say more than you need to, but never lie about the other women in your life.
2) Be Calm
Basic game advice. But important here, especially if she’s heated. Stay unemotional in the face of her drama. Rock-like. Don’t tolerate too much shit though, and next her if she takes things too far. Finally, remember that this is not necessarily the end of your relationship. She may leave you. Let her go if she does. She’ll probably be back.
3) Is She Prettier Than Me?
I’ve found that women who know details about each other tend to focus on ONE main thing. Looks. If the other woman is objectively hotter than her, there may be serious tears. And if she thinks the girl is less pretty than her? She’ll get mean. Be prepared for nasty, specific insults based almost entirely on the other woman’s physical appearance. [Actually, this part can be hilarious! Not a good time for you to laugh though, so bite your lip, you heartless bastard.]
4) No Meetings
Girls who know details may ask to meet each other. I refuse to let my girls meet. Oh, I’ve been tempted. Mostly by the thought of threesomes. But, I haven’t let it happen. In my opinion, letting harem members [who don’t already know each other] meet is a recipe for disaster. I’ve gone out of my way to avoid it. I suggest you do the same, unless you have very high-level relationship game.
5) No Details
No reason to rub details in her face. Never bring up her rival, and avoid talking about the girl[s] she knows about. Don’t go bragging about your other women. She’ll probably bring up the other girls again. Refuse that conversation, tell her you see no reason to talk about it anymore.
6) Bang Her Well
Game only goes so far. If you’re maintaining a harem, you’ve got to give women a very compelling reason to stay with you. ESPECIALLY now that she knows about all the other girls. And that means banging her like a champion. Get Red Pill Orgasm if you need to step up your sex skills.
7) Cultivate Her Hate
Your girls are likely to hate each other. With white-hot passion. And you can’t change that. So, encourage it. Her hatred for your other girls will focus her like a goddam laser. And her objective? Making YOU happy. She’ll beat that other stupid bitch, and win your affection. Let her compete for you. Out-do herself. It’s win-win.
Remember, female jealousy is a great supplement to your game arsenal.
The green-eyed monster is a strong motivator.
Harness its power and use it to keep yourself satisfied.
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