Sometimes there are game grey areas.
Where a man must experiment before learning what works best for him.
One major personal grey area?
Right after I’ve have sex with a new girl.
But before I’ve banged her for the second time.
This stage of the seduction process is short, but critical.
If you’ve gotten to this point, congratulations are in order.
Clearly your game was tight enough to seduce her at least once.
But even so, there’s no guarantee that she’ll sleep with you again.
Or your dick was too small.
Maybe you’re too old.
Or too young.
The chemistry wasn’t right.
Or a thousand other reasons…
Whatever her excuse, your fledgling “relationship” could end up as a one-night stand or fling.
And for some guys that’s OK.
If you’re a notch-hunter; then game over.
Next her and move on to another conquest.
But other men, like me, may want to keep new women around.
You might want a fresh fuck buddy, a new harem girl, or maybe even a traditional girlfriend.
If you DO want her to stick around, then your game after the first bang is important.
At this stage you’re no longer strangers.
But she’s not your girlfriend yet either…
So how should you game her in that grey area after first-time sex, but before the second bang?
Just to clarify – I’m talking about seeing her again after the first time you’ve had sex.
Whether you bang her once, twice, or three times that first time, that still counts as just one time.
The second time would be the next date, when you sex again on a different day.
1) Have Dominant Sex
This is your primary tool, it sets the stage for the next tips.
Yes, the first time with a new girl can be awkward.
But banging her like a champ will increase your chance of seeing her again.
And remember good sex is no guarantee of a second bang…
2) Don’t Run Your Mouth
Limit post-sex pillow talk.
No need to confide in her, don’t go spilling secrets.
I’m not saying you should clam up completely.
Just don’t get diarrhea of the mouth because your dick got wet.
And never try to schedule the next date while you’re still on the current date.
So, how should you communicate post first-time bang?
3) Stick With Text Game
Communication between the first and second bang should be done through text.
Yeah there are some exceptions.
But mostly you’ll be texting.
Avoid calling her, though Facebook messages and email are OK.
So when should you text her, after you’ve had sex for the first time?
Well if you’re lucky, she’ll make it easy…
4) When She Texts You First
If she likes you, she’ll text YOU after the first bang.
If you get a text from her after the first time you have sex – great.
That’s a positive sign, a strong indicator of interest.
But again, it’s no guarantee.
So, what if she doesn’t text you?
5) When You Should Text Her
If she doesn’t text you after the first time you have sex, then you should text her.
Usually that means contacting her 12-24 hours after the bang, the next afternoon or evening.
6) What Should You Say?
No matter who texts first, stick with logistics.
Schedule the second date then minimize contact until you see her in person again.
Always avoid excessive texting at this stage.
7) How Should You Say It?
Since you’re focusing on logistics, keep your texts light and non-needy.
Flirting and sex talk is OK, but be careful here.
In this stage in the game, it’s natural for some guys to think there’s more to the relationship than there is.
I mean, she fucked you, sucked your dick.
She must like you a whole lot, right?
8) Set Realistic Expectations
Sometimes sex is just sex.
Perhaps it meant something to her.
But maybe not.
Don’t assume anything, yet.
If you do have sex with her again, that’s cool.
But if not?
You should be OK with that outcome, too.
9) When Should You See Her Again?
This is another game grey area.
In general, it’s best to see her again quickly after first sex.
Especially if you’re trying to draw her into your life.
If you don’t do see her soon enough, she may drift away, find new men.
So shoot for seeing her fast – usually 2-4 days after the first time you sleep together.
But you can also make exceptions.
Sometimes it’s actually OK to see her again the very next night – back-to-back dates.
That’s rare though. And it should only happen if one of you is traveling, and you want to bang her again before then.
10) Handling Post-Sex Rejection
What if you do everything right, including having good sex, but she doesn’t want to see you again?
That’s a tough pill to swallow, my friend.
It’s a uniquely harsh and personal form of rejection.
And yeah it can mess with your ego if you let it.
Like mentioned earlier, there are various reasons why she might not want to see you again.
Sure, attraction is part of it – maybe you turned her off.
But it also has to do with where she’s at in her life. Sometimes you’ll catch girls who are slutting it up. They aren’t looking for relationships right now; you’re simply part of the carousel. And so then her rejection has more to do with her than with you.
Each man’s approach in this game grey area will differ depending on what he personally wants from his girls.
But if your goal is to keep her around long enough for a second bang and beyond, don’t get sloppy.
Just follow these ten tips and soon you’ll be navigating this game grey area with ease.
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