I found Nicole on OKCupid about a month after I got back from Japan.
We had an hour-long IM chat before she agreed to meet me for coffee.
I added her on Facebook, then called her a few days before our date. Our conversation was quick, pleasant, and we confirmed our plans.
But then she flaked:
Nicole: Hey! I hate to do this but I’m going to have to reschedule, I woke up in the middle of the night really sick, so I’m going to be in bed all day. :(
MF: OK ;)
Nicole: Once I’m feeling better ill let you know and we can set something up again :)
MF: Sounds good
We didn’t re-schedule.
I kept my text game sharp, stayed silent.
She texted me a week later:
Nicole: Hey! Sorry it has taken me awhile to get back to you, I’ve been pretty busy and stressed planning my move back home. I’m moving back in less than 2 weeks, but if you’re still interested in getting coffee or something let me know! Have a good day :)
MF: no problem lol :) free tomorrow or thursday…
She was waiting for me when I walked into the coffee shop.
Nicole was a 21-year-old half-Greek, half-white girl. She worked out religiously and it showed – later she’d go on to compete in fitness competitions. Her body was amazing – firm tits, tight ass, very feminine. She had big brown eyes, long lashes, and long, brown hair. She took good care of her nails and her teeth were perfect. She loved to tan so her skin was kinda dark; she made me look pale.
We ordered coffee and found a table outside. I sat as close to her as possible, touching knees immediately.
We talked about her recent graduation from college. She’d been part of the “hook up” scene. Now, she wanted a relationship. Interesting, since Nicole was returning to Houston in less than two weeks. She couldn’t find a job and needed to move home to live with her parents.
Her personality was masculine and analytical despite her feminine good looks. She wasn’t sweet or nurturing; but at least her intelligence made conversation easy. And I was attracted to her, even with the cold personality. So I put my hands all over her, and she responded well.
I ended the date after an hour.
We kissed briefly in the parking lot, just a quick closed-mouth peck on the lips.
She texted me as I drove away:
Nicole: It was good meeting you. I feel like it was pretty quick though lol, so I definitely want to see you again when I get back :)
MF: yes ;) come watch a movie at my house when you get back. what day returning?
Nicole: OK, I’ll be back Sunday night
She came over for a movie on Sunday.
We were making out hard 30 minutes into the movie. Almost no resistance – I had her naked and sucking my cock quickly. We didn’t even make it upstairs, just fucked right there on the couch. I normally love fucking women much younger than me. But this time, the sex was uninspiring. She wasn’t enthusiastic or excited. But she as she was told, and her body made it all worth it.
Once we finished, she stayed business-like. Put on her clothes and went home shortly after.
I knew Nicole was moving in just a few days, so I wanted to bang her again quickly.
I texted her the very next morning – invited her over again.
She came over again that night and we had sex again.
This time she slept over, left the next morning.
But after that, she was too busy to see me again.
Then she left town.
We sent one or two texts that summer, but contact was minimal.
Four months later, she texted me. Told me she was coming back to Austin, she’d found a job.
So we resumed our fuck-buddy relationship when she got back into town.
But after a while, she wanted more…
Eventually she came over one night.
Angry and demanding answers.
Was I dating other women?
And that was it. She was done with me, she left for good.
I liked Nicole but there was not much passion between us.
I doubt she’ll ever come back.
Our last text exchange:
MF: I had fun dating you. good luck :)
Nicole: Thanks, I did too. Enjoy your polyamory :)
Total Cost: $7.39
Time Spent: 2-3 hours to first sex
Lessons Learned: IM conversations are a solid way of getting young girls comfortable with you on online dating sites.
Back-to-back dates are acceptable if needed, but only during in the beginning of a relationship.
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