It was a lazy Sunday afternoon.
My girlfriend was on her laptop, lounging on the couch at my place.
She was talking about a dating blog she’d found – she knew the author.
So I looked at it.
Typical retrograde blue pill advice.
My writer’s pride got the best of me.
I just couldn’t help myself…
“What if I told you I had a real dating and game blog?”
And I showed her.
Of course, she it shocked her.
You see, we’ve been dating almost two years.
And I’d owned Red Pill Game that entire time, but she never knew about it.
She also had no idea what the Red Pill (TRP) was – though she did know about game.
She’s a girly-girl who’s prone to tears, so there was drama when I “revealed” myself.
She took it better than I thought she would.
At least for now.
And I gotta admit – it feels good.
Like a weight lifted off my shoulders, you know?
And this episode also got me thinking…
What if you want to introduce your girl(s) to the Red Pill?
I mean, if you’re reading this, you probably don’t have a game blog.
But you most likely are a Red Pill man.
So eventually, you may find yourself in a similar situation, where you want to show your colors…
Are you tired of hiding?
Want to show your true beliefs to your wife or girlfriend, so you can have a Red Pill relationship?
Here’s how to make your girl swallow this bitter pill…
Gauge Her Receptiveness
First off, you’ve gotta realize that not every woman you date can swallow the Red Pill.
I’ve dated dozens of women and this was the first time I’ve felt comfortable introducing it.
So, she’s gotta be open.
If she’s in love with you, it’ll be easier.
Reveal yourself to girls only if you know they are tolerant.
And when you finally talk with her about it?
Don’t Do It Too Soon
I’d say this is only for long-term relationships.
So even if you think she’ll be receptive to TRP, don’t do it too quickly.
Like I said, it was almost two years before I discussed all this with my current girl.
And when it’s finally time?
Talk In Person
This is heavy stuff.
So talk about it in person.
Just like telling her you’re not monogamous, you’ll need to touch her, hug her, physically reassure her.
And that’s best done live.
She will have many questions, she may even take notes.
Remember, you don’t need to defend yourself or your beliefs.
Simply explain what TRP is, and what it means to you and your relationship.
Don’t know exactly what to say?
Have Relevant Info Ready
Chances are, you already understand Red Pill knowledge.
So you can tell her what it’s all about.
But if you don’t feel like explaining, or don’t know the answers, point her in the right direction.
In my case, I had my blog archives.
After reading them, my girl (mostly) understood TRP philosophy.
So, you could do something similar.
Show her this blog, or others like it, so she can educate herself.
Don’t Overload Her
But be careful not to hit her with too much information…
She may get overloaded and stressed if you do.
I made the mistake of dumping all this on my girl at once.
Although there’s some advantage to doing it fast, it could strain your relationship.
She May Already Be Red Pill
If your woman is a feminine, low N-count girl?
Then the TRP may already partly line up with at least some of her beliefs.
The Red Pill, love, and long-term relationships are not mutually exclusive.
So these ideas are likely not completely offensive to her.
It May Turn Her On
This one surprised me…
Once my girl read through this blog and understood my beliefs?
She actually got turned on.
And so we ended up having great sex that night – after she’d calmed down.
It Won’t Be As Hard As You Think
The Red Pill is just a philosophy, a belief system.
So if your frame is strong enough, and she loves you, she’ll tolerate it.
Pick the right girl, lead her to the Red Pill, and she’ll likely follow…
For Red Pill Bloggers
This post was mostly meant for guys without blogs.
But what if you have a Red Pill blog, and plan on revealing it to her?
Expect extra challenges.
Mostly, she’ll be concerned about you writing about her, and her friends and family finding out.
She’ll also have questions about your anonymity, and how you blog affects your relationship going forward.
But a Red Pill blog doesn’t have to kill your relationship.
If you have strong game, you can still keep her around long-term.
Some say you shouldn’t talk with women about game or the Red Pill.
But I did the opposite.
And so far, it feels pretty good.
Yes, I’m still in the early stages of the “post Red-Pill” part of my relationship.
It could backfire.
But so far, the signs are encouraging.
I think introducing the Red Pill has actually strengthened our bond.
Is your girl ready?
Then follow this guide, feed her TRP, and see if you can do the same…
Have you shared Red Pill beliefs with your women? How did it turn out?