In my last post we explored how to master the art of the soft next. But I didn’t cover one important aspect of soft nexting - it works both ways. Meaning, yes, you can soft next a woman you’re dating if she misbehaves. But women will soft next you, too. Ash Pariseau brought that point up in her comment…. I answered her question, but my reply was superficial an … [Read more...]
Harems
Are Harems Or One-Night Stands Better For Introverted Men?
I have lots of experience with harems. Dating multiple girls is normal for me, it’s just part of my lifestyle. But I’ve also had tons of one-night stands. Here's the thing though. Yes, I'm a player. But I'm also a very introverted guy. I enjoy seducing women and love sex. But I crave solitude. So which style is better for men like me - lone wolves who love women? Guys w … [Read more...]
How To Build Your First Harem
harem (noun): a group of women associated with one man - Merriam-Webster Building your very first harem seems like a hard task. A harem is so far out there, so different from familiar traditional monogamy, that it's almost like a fantasy. But modern harems are real - and in this post I'll teach you how to build your first harem. For introverted men like me, harems are an … [Read more...]
Becoming Immune To Female Tears
As your game improves, you’ll naturally become more masculine. Meaning you’ll attract more feminine women. And that’s a good thing. Feminine girls are better than their tomboy sisters. They’re usually more petite, girly, sweet, and loving. They’re likely prettier, dress like real women, and tend to have long hair and nice nails. And feminine girly-girls are also (mostly) m … [Read more...]
How To Date Women Half Your Age
When I was younger, I usually slept with girls my age. Or sometimes, even older. Sure, I messed around with a few younger than me. But that wasn’t the norm. Back then, I guess I felt it was wrong to bang younger girls. You know? Like I’d unconsciously accepted blue-pill conditioning surrounding may/december relationships. That became a problem as I grew older and women in m … [Read more...]
The Player’s Guide To Covering Your Tracks
Troy Francis recently published an article at Return Of Kings - 7 Tips For Building A Harem. Tip #4 caught my eye. Troy advises players to carefully clean up their place before women visit - scrubbing evidence of other females. I agree. But several ROK commenters took issue with that. Weak! Beta! Real Alphas don't NEED to clean to cover their tracks! Yeah. OK. I live … [Read more...]
Ride The Green-Eyed Monster (Cultivating Female Jealousy)
It happened. You slipped up or said the wrong thing. Or she got nosy. Snooped into your phone, email, or Facebook. She found names and faces. Matched up events, dates and times. Oh sure, she already knew you dated other girls. Hated it, but tolerated it. But now? She knows too much, way more than she should. And now your relationship is probably over, right? Not a … [Read more...]
Never Promise Monogamy
Several red pill writers practice traditional monogamy. For example, a well-known (now defunct) red pill blogger recently skipped a night of guaranteed pleasure with a fuck-buddy. He chose to remain true to his girlfriend, instead. Now, I completely respect his choice. He did the right thing by staying loyal. But you KNOW I wouldn't have done the same. In fact, I disagree … [Read more...]
Letting Her Go
I lost my favorite harem member. Really, she was my girlfriend. We'd been together for almost 20 months. We'd had a great relationship. Probably the best of my life. Janelle was white, attractive, and ten years younger than me. I found her when she was 23. Like most American college girls, she was a former slut. Yeah, I know. It's dumb to fall in love with sluts. But … [Read more...]
Make Her Earn You
Before taking the red pill, I always spent money on girls. Somehow, it seemed like the right thing. But I'm 35 now - I've dated dozens of women. So my illusions are gone. So I've discarded my “sure, it's OK to spend on women” philosophy. I've flipped the script. And you can too. How? Make her spend money on you, instead. Why? For one thing, it'll save you cash. But it … [Read more...]
