I’ve lived in Latin America for almost two years now. And from what I’ve seen, Latinas are not exactly the same as Western women. To do well in relationships with Latina girls, you’ll need to adjust your methods. That’s because many Latin men use a specific style of relationship game – one that’s very effective when used on Latina women:
It’s simple. When you’re in a relationship with a Latina, you’ll alternate between pushing her away emotionally, and then pulling her back in again. Then you’ll repeat this, over and over, for as long as the relationship lasts. Remember, this is specific to Latinas – those who haven’t been influenced by American or Western culture.
Here’s how to behave during each phase:
In this phase you’re pushing her away emotionally, like the name suggests.
Here are a few things you can do:
- Responding To Her Texts & Calls Super Slowly
- Ignore The Majority Of Her Texts & Calls
- Be Extremely Stingy With Your Time
- Being An Asshole, In General
- Withhold Your Emotions
- Zero Jealousy Displays
It’s important to remember that the push phase is not the same thing as nexting a woman. It’s not a punishment. And you’re not trying to control her behavior or prevent her from acting out.
Instead, your goal here is to maximize her attraction for you and give her a reason to obsess over you. This will lead to a stronger and more enduring relationship.
Using push/pull game is also a great way to activate her natural female jealousy – if you ignore her, she’ll almost always imagine the worst. At the very least, she’ll go nuts trying to figure out what your doing!
This phase is the exact opposite of the push phase.
Now you give her the attention and love she craves.
Here’s what to do:
- Respond To Almost All Her Texts & Calls
- Respond Quickly To Her Messages
- Spending More Time With Her
- Showing Her Love & Emotion
- Public Displays Of Affection
- Mild Jealousy Displays
- Being Sweet To Her
Don’t be afraid to be nicer than normal during this phase. To some extent, you’re ‘making up’ for your coldness during the push phase. And if you handled the push phase correctly, most Latinas won’t punish you for showing her love during the pull phase.
So now you understand each phase of push/pull game.
But what’s the correct frequency for each phase? How often should you push? And how often should you pull? I typically use a 70/30 mix. So 70% of the time I pull. And 30% of the time I push.
Of course you’ll adjust your percentages based on each individual woman. A sweet girl who really cares about you? She might need less push and more pull. But a bitchy diva with tons of male suiters? She’ll likely respond better to more push and less pull.
Most Latino men already use the push/pull method. They just do it naturally, it’s part of their culture. But other races of men can also learn to use this style of relationship game when dating Latina women.
Will this method work on non-Latinas? Maybe with some of them. But in my experience, most Western girls like a steadier style of game.
It’s Latinas who prefer the roller-coaster ride of emotions. And so push/pull game is the way to give them the highs and lows they crave.
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