When you get into game and take the red pill, some truths are hard to swallow.
One of the most bitter?
Realizing that many women respond well to rough, even poor treatment.
Treat her like shit, and she’ll love me more?
What the hell?
For a nice guy, this is especially difficult. It’s the opposite of everything he’s learned about women! And it goes against his manly urge to protect women and treat them like princesses.
But I’ve been in enough relationships to know the truth. Being nice, loving, and overly-caring is NOT the way to win female love and loyalty.
Dominance is what works.
Yes, sexual dominance is vital. But verbal dominance is also key. Combine both and you’ll have a powerful mix!
But being dominant in romantic relationships isn’t always easy, especially for nice guys. For those guys, it takes a major mental shift.
Here’s how to get started:
Dominate your woman with words
1) Playful insults
This is game 101. But if you’re not familiar with it, playful teasing is used to knock a girl off her pedestal. It’s mostly used during beginning phases of seduction. The key key here is playful, light, but with a hint of truth. Very effective.
This is different from playful insults. It’s more aggressive, but still playful. And heavy teasing begins after you’ve slept together. You don’t want to make her cry, just push her buttons, make her hot.
3) Arguing for fun
This means arguing and disagreeing with her, just for sport. It should be fun for you. So get comfortable with arguing just for the sake of arguing (even if you don’t actually disagree). Try to win every disagreement – even if you’re wrong and you know it.
This is when you get more personal. Question her efforts. Criticizing her clothes, looks, cooking, and sexual skills. You have high standards and she isn’t meeting them! This is most effective when mixed with occasional genuine compliments, because it throws her off.
5) Name-calling & nicknames
Name-calling and nicknames sound childish, yes. But they work. Nicknames establish dominance over her. For day-to-day nicknames, use something that’s more fun than mean. Like something you’d call your little sister. Name calling should be used less often. Bitch and slut are obvious ones. Retarded, stupid, dumb are slightly less insulting. Especially if you’re referring to an act or idea and not her in general.
6) Verbal pimp-slap
Here’s when you get mean. The verbal pimp slap is an alternative to physical violence. For example – looking her in the eye and telling her to shut the fuck up. Or tell her you don’t give a shit about her opinions. You get the idea. Use verbal abuse sparingly, only when it’s really needed!
I know some people are gonna read this post and cherry-pick the stuff they don’t like.
So I’ll say it very clearly:
Calibration is key!
This advice works best when combined with a teasing attitude. Sure, occasionally you’ll get mean (#6). But 90% of the time, you should be light-hearted when doing this stuff! Always mix aggressive verbal dominance with playfulness!
Dominance is an art. Get too mean and you’ll turn things toxic. But act too nice? She’ll get bored and leave. So walk the line. Know your girl. Learn to read her, understand her. Know when she’s craving discipline and then give it to her. But also know when it’s time to ease back.
Is verbal dominance wrong?
Some might say verbal dominance is just being a bully.
Do you wanna white-knight?
Or do you want strong, long-lasting relationships?
Pick one, my friend.
Are you a naturally nice guy struggling to keep women attracted?
Now you know what you’re missing.
Dominate her, my friend.
So use this guide, tap into your dominant side, and you’ll massively strengthen your game.
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