Some say womanizing kills a man’s ability to have strong, healthy relationships.
They believe a male player is no different from a female slut.
That ‘man-whores’ who sleep with tons of women are damaged goods.
And that they can’t truly bond with any one women, since they’ve run through so many.
So is it true?
Does womanizing ruin a man, and make it hard for him to have stable and loving romantic relationships?
That’s not true.
It’s the opposite, instead.
Being a player actually makes a man better at long-term relationships, not worse!
1) More Experience
The only way to get good with women, to really truly and deeply understand them? You’ve gotta date and fuck and have relationships with lots of them. A player has that extensive hands-on experience. This stands in stark contrast to most ‘normal’ men who’ve only been with a handful of girls, and thus have limited knowledge about the fairer sex.
2) Strong Game & Frame
Experience equals strong game. And strong game makes romantic relationships better. A player knows, deep down in his heart, that he can always get a new woman. Secure in this knowledge, he’s likely to have stronger frame and tighter game when dealing with his current girl.
3) He Knows What He Wants
A player has been through enough women to know what he wants. He knows what he likes, and what he doesn’t. He knows exactly where his boundaries are, when it comes to female behavior. And so that means…
4) Players Don’t Settle
Since a player is totally confident in his ability to get new girls, he’s not afraid to lose his current one. And that means he’s not staying with his woman out of fear of losing her, or settling because he thinks he can’t do better! He’s with her because he wants to be. And that’s the foundation of a healthy relationship.
5) He’s Less Likely To Cheat
A womanizer tends to have fewer regrets. He’s already done everything he wants to do, when it comes to women. There’s nothing left to get out of his system – his oats are all sowed. And that means he’s less likely to stray. Not always though. Sure, most former players can settle down and be totally monogamous. But a minority are players for life…
6) Discretion (if he cheats)
A really hardcore player might fuck other women, even while he’s in love with his current girl. But a player knows just how to handle this. He understands discretion and compartmentalization. So if he does bang other girls on the side? He does it quietly. And he’s unlikely to catch feelings.
7) Past Partners Don’t Affect His Love
When a man’s truly in love with a new woman, he rarely thinks about his exes. They’re basically dead to him. And that’s the same whether he’s been with two girls, or two hundred. So a high partner count (on his side) will have zero effect on his ability to love.
8) Better Sex
Sex is an art. The more you practice the better you’ll get. By definition, a player has had tons of sex. So he knows how to lay it down in the bedroom. And while sex isn’t everything – it’s obviously vital for a strong, happy, long-term relationship.
Men and women are not the same – we’re not equals.
There are clearly massive mental, emotional, and physical differences.
So high N-counts affect the two sexes differently.
Former sluts are toxic partners.
But former player can make great boyfriends, husbands, and lovers.
What do you think? Can players (and former players) be good partners?