Before taking the red pill, I always spent money on girls.
Somehow, it seemed like the right thing.
But I’m 35 now – I’ve dated dozens of women. So my illusions are gone.
So I’ve discarded my “sure, it’s OK to spend on women” philosophy.
I’ve flipped the script.
And you can too.
Make her spend money on you, instead.
For one thing, it’ll save you cash. But it will also make your relationship stronger.
People like you better once they’ve done you a favor.
It invests them in your life – because they now have a stake in your outcome.
So how can you pull this off?
Just get comfortable demanding things.
What to demand from your women:
1) Date Drinks
Who pays for first date drinks? Well, I always pay for the FIRST round of drinks on first dates. After that, she pays for the second or third rounds.
2) Food & Cooking
Set the food expectation early during the relationship.* Either she cooks for you or she brings you food, almost every time you see each other. Rarely offer to pay – just eat what she offers.
3) Drugs & Alcohol
Keep liquor on hand for first dates. But after that, if she’s a drinker, she should bring her own alcohol. Remember, many pretty girls get free drugs from their orbiters. Take advantage of that, if you’re a man who enjoys using drugs.
Gifts are tricky. Avoid giving them. But if you must do it, make sure you spend less on her than she spends on you. Also, watch out for inappropriate gifts. Excessive gift-giving can be a red flag, since some girls give gifts when they’re feeling guilty.
Girls always want to watch movies or some stupid television show. No problem, but she can bring the DVD’s. Or log into her Netflix or Hulu subscription. No reason for you to pay.
6) X-Rated Photos & Videos
Ideally she should send naked photos or video on demand – while you never send her any. And try getting girls to you fuck on camera. Doesn’t always work, but worth a shot.
7) Cleaning & Laundry
I don’t make girls do laundry, since I’m picky about my clothes. But I have no problem letting them clean my place.
Get creative here. Make her do whatever you want. And remember, demanding favors is an effective screening tool. If you ask her to do something and she doesn’t? She’s screened herself out.
In conclusion, favor game should be part of every player’s repertoire.
It’s a great way to strengthen relationships AND save money when dating multiple girls.
*Sometimes you must entice a woman over to your place by offering to cook dinner. That should ONLY happen during the seduction stage, before you’ve slept with her.
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