This blog is for men.
For masculine, intelligent players who want to learn red pill game concepts and improve their love lives.
That won’t change – this blog will always be a male space.
Today’s post is an exception.
Yes, this one’s for the ladies.
30% of my readers are female.
Many are women who want to understand men better, so they come here for unvarnished truth.
Some girls are looking for general tips and info.
But others want more explicit advice…
They need to understand a specific type of man:
Search engine terms show how they find this site:
- Extroverted women with introverted men
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- Tips for dating an introverted man
- Dating an introverted man
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- Extrovert girl dating an introvert guy
Notice a pattern?
Introverted men mystify extrovert women.
But this relationships dynamic is quite common.
Because roughly 54% of men are introverts.
And 53% of women are extroverts.
Yes these relationships are challenging.
But arm yourself with the right knowledge; and these pairings are amazing.
How do I know?
Because I’m an extremely introverted man.
But some of my strongest relationships have been with extrovert girls.
Are you a social, extroverted woman?
Struggling to understand your quiet, introverted man?
Walk with me.
I’ll show you how to build a rock-solid relationship with him…
What extrovert women must know about dating an introverted man:
First you’ve gotta understand the basics.
What Is An Introvert?
An introvert is a person who loses energy when interacting with other people.
A true introvert always feels drained after dealing with others.
He must have regular solitude to recharge his energy.
There are many myths about introverts.
But introverts aren’t shy or socially retarded.
Many love people, have friends, and live active social lives.
And they’re not all the same…
There are 8 distinct categories.
For example, I’m an INTJ.
Breaking them all down is beyond the scope of this post.
Just know that there are differences – not all are the same.
So ask him to take an introvert personality test.
If you know your man’s specific type, you’ll understand him better.
He’s Not Shy
Like I mentioned, introverts are not shy.
Some introverts are indistinguishable from extroverts in social situations; many are super-charming.
Some learn to wear the extrovert skin.
Others may take on extroverted jobs to strengthen their social skills.
But with that said, introverted guys are NOT the same as extroverted men.
He Craves Alone Time
He likely loves spending time with you.
But he also craves his alone time like water or air.
Want a healthy, happy relationship with him?
Give him freedom.
Together too much?
You’ll turn things stagnant, and he’ll end up resenting you for it.
So don’t smother him…
He’s Detail Oriented
Introverts notice details.
Which means they see almost everything.
And they also remember every you do, everything you say.
Sure, it might seem like he’s tuning you out.
But don’t get it twisted.
He’s really like an elephant.
And he uses all that info, too…
He Over-Analyzes Everything
He’ll spend hours thinking about things.
Contemplating your relationship.
He’s kinda like you in this way – you both overly obsess.
He Doesn’t Care About Your Family & Friends
This is harsh but generally true.
Think about it.
Does he spend much time with his friends and family?
Then why would he want to spend time with yours?
He’s in a relationship with you – not your people.
So don’t force him to spend time on those he doesn’t care about.
He’d Rather Stay Home
Home is his default.
He’d almost always rather be there.
Yes it’s his castle.
But more importantly it’s his “recharge zone.”
It’s his sanctuary; where he goes to replenish his energy so he can deal with life.
Only Make Him Go To Important Stuff
Gonna make him go to social functions?
Then don’t waste time making him go to unimportant events.
Skip things like birthday parties, baby showers, and happy hours with your co-workers.
Pick your battles.
Only make him go to important things – like weddings, holidays, funerals, graduation, etc.
He Will Compromise (If He Loves You)
If he loves you, he’ll compromise for you.
He’ll go to the social functions that really matter to you.
And he may even enjoy it, IF you learn to structure them properly…
Keep Social Situations Small
Introverts prefer intimate social functions.
That means one-on-one time or small groups.
So make sure you set things up that way.
For example – want to introduce him to your family?
Don’t bring him to your giant reunion.
Instead, introduce him to important family members over time at multiple small gatherings.
Never Embarrass Your Introverted Man In Public
This is critical.
Never embarrass him, laugh at him, or second guess him in front of others.
If it’s just the two of you alone?
Sure, say what you want.
But embarrass your introverted man in public?
You’ll severely damage your relationship.
So avoid it like ebola.
Always have his back around others.
No matter what.
Go On Adventures Together
Just because he likes to stay home, doesn’t mean he’s boring.
He’s used to rolling solo – but he’ll appreciate a willing activity partner.
So explore the world together.
Just you and him.
Be crafty – entice him out with stuff he likes.
Many introverts crave adventure – they just wanna be in small groups of people while engaging in it.
Yes, I said this post was for women.
But I tricked you.
It’s really for men.
Because I want extrovert women to find this post, read it, and use it to make their quiet man happier.
It’s my way of indirectly helping my introverted brothers – guys who don’t read my blog but whose women do.
So thank you for reading, little Miss Extrovert.
Take this info, internalize it, and you’ll massively strengthen your relationship with your introverted man.
Do you need help improving things with your introverted man? Get a Relationship Consultation.
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