Most of the time when you meet a new girl, you’ll get her number. That’s ideal because it puts you in control. Once you get it, you decide when to contact her – you’re not waiting for her to message you.
But sometimes, you might be out somewhere and not have your phone on you. Maybe you forgot it, or it ran out of batteries, or you lost it.
Usually it’s no big deal.
For example, if you’re at a bank, bar, or restaurant and don’t have your phone, you can ask someone for pen and paper, then have the girl write down her info. Then later you’d put it into your phone and text her.
But let’s say you’re out somewhere without your phone, and there’s no pen and paper handy. Like the beach, pool, or bodyweight park. But she has her phone on her…
Here’s how to give a girl your number:
Your approach would be the same as normal.
But when it’s time to get her number, tell her you forgot your phone. Then offer a solution – say that you’ll put your number into her phone, so she can text you.
Once she hands you her phone, enter your number (make sure you enter it yourself, to reduce the chance for errors). Save it under your name, and then hand her phone back to her.
But you’re not quite done yet…
You can’t trust her to text you later. It’s possible she will, but most likely she won’t.
So have her send you a message right away, with you still standing there, so there’s no uncertainty.
Say something like ‘Hey, send me a text, so that way I’ll have your number. Then I’ll text you later. Just send hi or something.”
Then make sure she actually sends it. Ideally you’d be standing shoulder to shoulder with her at this point, so you can see what she’s doing with her phone.
Once you see she’s sent you that first text message, you can safely end the interaction.
Later on, when you have your phone again, save her number. Then text her and set up your first date.
And that’s it!
So now you know how to give a girl your number, the right way.
Of course, you could send the message to yourself from her phone, right after you save your number. But it’s better to have her send the message, you don’t want to keep her phone too long.
Plus it’s a good way to start things off – conditioning her to do what you ask, right from the start of the relationship.
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