Plate-spinning, polyamory, MLTR (multiple long term relationships), OLTR (open long term relationships), multiple women, or running harems.
Whatever you want to call it, dating more than one woman at a time is a pillar of red pill game.
But not all harems are the same.
So let’s explore the two main types:
In a rotating soft harem, you date multiple women, with no expectation of commitment from anyone.
You bang other girls, and you assume your girls bang other men.
Ideally, your women know about the other girls. And if she doesn’t know yet? She’ll find out when she asks about her status, and you tell her the truth.
Your rotating soft harem should have a minimum of two women. Three to four is my personal ideal – but every man is different so adjust according to your preferences.
Most women don’t last long in a rotating soft harem, six to eight months has been my experience. Of course, you can extend that time if you fuck her well.
Whatever you do, just remember to never promise monogamy, and always be willing to let her walk away.
That’ll keep you firmly in control of your harem.
This is my favorite type of harem, for obvious reasons.
Here, the women in your harem know you date and fuck other women.
But they still remain loyal – monogamous to you.
That’s right, you bang multiple women and they only bang you.
Women in a royal harem tend to be more stable, since they’re only fucking you. They’re more bonded, physically and emotionally.
Sure, they do leave and come back sometimes. But let them go, and they’re likely to come back, eventually.
The royal harem should also have a minimum of two women. Again, three or four women would be best – but harder to do.
Remember, you could always pursue one-night stands (ONS) and pump-and-dumps while maintaining a royal harem. That way you blend the best of both harem styles.
Your Jealousy Can Destroy Your Harem!
Never let your own jealously ruin a perfectly good harem. Remember, you will ALWAYS hurt your frame and damage your polyamorous relationships by expressing any kind of jealousy.
So always control that. No matter what.
Your women have decided to stay with YOU – despite your flaws. She lets you fuck other women! So don’t screw it up by getting jealous or needy, even if she is fucking other guys.
Although you may prefer a royal harem. Who wouldn’t? But a rotating soft harem is almost as good. And both are vastly superior to monogamy.
So always be quiet and choke down any jealousy that you feel.
In contrast, use her jealousy as a tool to control the relationship.
Downsides To Polyamory
Are there any downsides to running a harem?
Time is one issue – running harems eats up precious time. Time management skills are vital here.
Health is another, especially with soft harems. You must use a condom every time you have sex with one of your soft harem women.
One of the major upsides to a royal harem? You don’t have to use condoms, since they don’t fuck anyone else. There is an element of trust here, obviously.
And either way, be sure you always wear a condom for a ONS or temporary pump-and-dump sluts. You don’t want to pollute your own harem.
What kind of girls will be part of your harem?
I’ve found that younger women are more tolerant, more likely to agree to be part of a harem. Older women don’t do harem membership as well. So, if you’re serious about harem management, target women in the 18-26 year range.
Remember – harems are fluid and temporary.
Your girls will leave you, eventually.
Relax, ride it out, and enjoy your time together.
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