I’ll admit – I’ve lied to girls before.
But those lies were pre-red pill. Before I systematically strengthened my game.
So I think it’s bad advice when writers advise guys to lie to women they’re dating.
Lying to girls is a sign of weak game.
Specifically, weak inner game.
Well ask yourself – what’s the root of your lie?
Why are you lying to her?
Now the initial answer might differ depending on the unique situation…
It always comes down to the same reason, in the end.
You don’t want her to leave.
And you think that by lying, she’ll stay with you. But that just shows how weak your core is. Violating your own morals, your own integrity, just to keep her around.
Look I understand.
Women lie. All the damn time. It’s just what they do, who they are. They can’t help it. But it’s a distinctly feminine trait.
We’re men. And men shouldn’t dissemble and deceive. At least not like them.
Seducing women can be dirty business. So keeping your soul clean is important – and telling her the truth is the only way.
And if she finds out about your other girls? She can’t handle it? She walks?
There’s the door.
Just frees up your time for more important things – achieving goals, finding other women, or whatever.
Because ultimately she’s not that important. Not in the long run.
Your big picture is what matters. And your integrity is part of that – the peace of mind that comes from knowing you’re not lying scum.
Sure she may leave.
But she’ll likely come back, eventually.
Either way, your position will be even stronger – relationship resting on a solid foundation of honesty and self-respect.
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