I keep a running spreadsheet of all my dates. And when I was looking at the figures recently, I realized I’ve gone on 50 first dates since September 2011.
So what do my first date numbers look like?
Let me break them down for you:
- Total First Dates – 50
- Total Lays (Sex) – 13
- Lay Ratio – 26%
- Age of Woman (average) – 27 years old
- Time Spent Per 1st Date (average)- 78 minutes
- Cost Per 1st Date (average) – $11
- One-Night Stands – 3
- Blowjob Only – 2
- Total USD Spent – $549
So, the numbers don’t look that great!
But, they also don’t tell the whole story…
Let me explain.
I rejected 6 of those 50.
And I messed around with eight others (making out, sucking tits, fingering, etc.). But then they rejected me.
The two blowjobs were one time deals that went nowhere, mutual rejection.
So where’d all these these dates come from?
Match is full of provider hunters, worthless. I cancelled that a long time ago.
Plenty of Fish is also totally worthless.
As of this writing, OKCupid is my favorite online dating site:
- OKCupid – 11 Lays
- Match.com – 1 Lay
- Day Game – 1 Lay
- Social Circle – 1 Blow job
- PlentyOfFish – 1 Blow job
I had a steep online dating learning curve in the beginning.
And yeah, I fucked up a few times.
Sometimes I felt like quitting.
But I just kept going. Like a shark.
Then this summer I went to Japan.
When I returned, my game was significantly stronger:
- First Dates – 14
- Lays – 7
- Lay Ratio – 50%
- Age of Woman (average) – 23 years old
- Time Spent Per 1st Date (average) – 62 minutes
- Cost Per 1st Date (average) – $8
- One-Night Stands – 2
- Total USD Spent – $113
- Foreign Women – 2 (Russian & Indian)
Now that looks a little better!
So where do I go from here- after 50 first dates?
Another 50 first dates. I’ll continue with online dating.
My goal is a consistent 75% lay ratio. I’ll try get that average age down to 19-20.
And of course I plan on spending less time and money per lay.
And don’t worry, I’ll keep posting my stories for your entertainment.