Texting is clearly a big part of game and dating.
It’s obviously important during the seduction phase, but it’s also vital for strong relationship game.
Here’s just one example:
I’d been dating Anastasia for several months.
She’d already left me once, because of the other women. But then she came back; agreed to be part of my harem.
She spent the night on a Friday. Saturday morning we woke up, had sex, and she made me breakfast. Then I (nicely) kicked her out.
That’s because I was going to a UT football game with Janelle. Now, Anastasia knew about the football game, but she didn’t ask who I was going with.
Our text exchange that Saturday – this was before the game, right after she left my place:
Anastasia: I’ve decided you need to bring me to a game at some point. I’ve never been to a college football game, lol ;)
MF: lol you will need to earn that ;)
Anastasia: Oh yea? How does one go about “earning” that? Lol ;)
MF: I can think of some things lol ;)
Anastasia: Uh huh…waiting to hear them ;) lol
MF: thats an in person conversation ;)
Anastasia: Hmm ok ;)
Anastasia: Have fun at the game! ;)
MF: Thanks ;)
Janelle checked me in on Facebook at the game, then tagged me in some pictures. Those pictures showed up on my Facebook timeline. Anastasia saw them the next day, Sunday morning.
She went nuts – sent this text storm:
Anastasia: I dont want to have this conversation via text but i need to get this out. As much as I don’t want to admit it, I do have feelings for you. I told you
Anastasia: I was ok with this being on open relationship because it worked for me right now.
Anastasia: I was mostly ok with it because out of sight out of mind. If I didn’t see what you were doing it was fine.
Anastasia: I know it seems a little juvenile to be referencing Facebook but I’m going to anyway. When I go on and I see you with another girl the same day that we
Anastasia: just rolled out of bed together at a game that you just told me I needed to “earn” is a little much for me. Honestly I think it’s a little disrespectful
Anastasia: of you to even consider posting that.
Anastasia: A little discretion wouldn’t hurt. Anyway, I don’t think this situation is working in my favor. I had fun, I hope you find what your really looking for ;)
Anastasia: I’m not sure what you expected. I may be dating someone else but I’m not broadcasting it.
MF: I understand. Good luck
Anastasia: Why are you so frustrating
Anastasia: Ok, I calmed down a little…can we talk tomorrow night?
She texted me the next day:
Anastasia: Did you eat dinner? Want me to pick anything up?
MF: i have not..so yes please
Anastasia: What would you like?
She showed up at my house with dinner. Later, we had make-up sex.
We talked about the football game incident, eventually. But since I’d never promised her monogamy, she didn’t say much more about it. At least not for a few more months.
I remember reading, somewhere in the Manosphere, that responding with just OK via text is like lobbing a hand grenade into a woman’s brain – drives the hamster nuts. So now I use some variation of ok as a catchall response to most silly, dramatic, or annoying texts.
I kept my game solid when dealing with Anastasia, but there’s always room for improvement.
I should have waited more time before responding – several hours between texts instead of a few minutes.
And I should have nexted her before seeing her again, since she’d given me so much drama.
But overall, a good example of using tight text game to diffuse drama and keep a plate spinning.
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